The one good parenting move we've got right now: the good behavior chart. Harper responds much better to it than she did to all of the griping I had been doing. No one likes being a griper or a gripee. So instead, a sticker chart that lead to a family movie night. We never eat outside the kitchen so dinner in the basement together while we watched Ratatouille was a fun reward for a chart full of unicorn stickers.
Exhibit 1 of darlingness.
Exhibit 2 of darlingness. This one freaks me out. Is she 5 or 18? I can't tell here.
Halloween. She was a... ? We're not sure. She just REALLY wanted to wear this outfit she was recently given. She was a "dancer girl from Dancing With The Stars" (which she has seen commercials for and is convinced it would be awesome to watch), or a "sugarplum fairy," or a "recital girl," or a "ballet girl." Whatever she was feeling when you asked. Just keeping it loose. Staying flexible.
This week Harper has finished her second Good Behavior Chart. The reward is a campout in the living room. She and Matt have wanted to do this for awhile. Friday night is the night. They will be enjoying the great indoors while I attend a gothic, Star Wars wedding. I know. Now you wish you were a Nagel.
Love,
Molly
6 comments:
OK, now you're going to have to give me details on the good behavior chart! What's on it? I LOVE the reward ideas. Matt is so fun. I think I do wish I was a Nagel :) And kudos to you for letting Harper to her own thing on Halloween! I agree... she is DARLING!
Um, what? gothic? star wars? WEDDING!?! Bah-ha-ha-ha-ha! Oh my, oh my, may I please be a Nagel!?
love love love her and love you and matt! i do wish i was a nagel. good luck with the photos at that wedding, lady. i want to hear all about it. let me know if you have any time to hang out later this weekend. miss you.
Oh the wedding!! I can't wait to hear all about it. :)
Love the pictures of Harper! Behavior charts are awesome, I have an almost 5 yr son and yes, we need a behavior chart too! Love your posts! Have fun tonight!
Your daughter is adorable as are her parents. Always praying for you.
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